Human Nature and Reality in Relationships

Perhaps it is imperative to acknowledge facts and human nature on “love relationship”.  Firstly I still believe that LOVE can be a very difficult thing to explain therefore it needs us to first understand, the nature of itself.

In my entire life as a teen, I’ve learn to understand that material being, is what deceive majority of us, mostly in DECISIONS, RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE, FAITH and all other non-material relative matters.

So here I will speak of nature of LOVE RELATIONSHIP and HUMAN NATURE.

Sometimes we lack the characteristics of LOVE RELATIONSHIP assume that miracles and material love will control the entire relationship without input of certain factors. I belief that LOVE should have sort of hierarchy, and GENIUNITY spiritual connection of the partners.  Unfortunately LOVE, TRUST and GENIUNITY was made to be non-material things therefore it demand FAITH for one to understand. We can give without love but we can’t love without giving, but the serious part here is that of WHAT ARE WE GIVING. Since we can’t see LOVE and prove LOVE unless your partner does so, I often say we GIVE them TRUST and Faith. However TRUST and FAITH can’t be also seen physical, for one to be trusted he/she needs to earn it. In other for one to obtain FAITH needs to be TRUSTED. We then say TRUE THINGS ARE THINGS WHICH HAPPENS NATURAL. Trust is the most important thing on the relationship and faith but not to gain FAITH to your PARTNER only but to also gain FAITH to yourself. The Bible once said that “FAITH is the substance of all things which can’t be seen physically”. It is the same phenomenon to LOVE.  The hierarchy of LOVE is not limited to the Patriarchy sort of notion but it is more about equality, faith and pure understanding. Sometimes it is very good to have time where EQUALITY even induces the communication and to have PURE UNDERSTANDING in order for one to be understood in a rational discussion without being bias. Sometimes pure understanding is necessary where one in the relationship is mad. If one is mad, one should also consider understanding and apologizing until both of you are over the situation and you can start engaging in making your partner to see his/her wrong-doing. Trying to fix every mistake before sleeping, it also gives the better chances for having better spiritual connection with your partner.  Sometimes we need to compromise on a relationship. Sometimes we find thing which are against our integrity but we need to make those things our virtue because LOVE is not about yourself only but it is also about how your will partner feel spiritually rather than pretending physical. 

I believe that no one knows what is love and the reason why I state this point. It is because the moment one assume that he/she knows what is love is the moment one losses all the key factors which he/she had before to that LOVE. Sometimes that is why people say “we can do anything for love, love is blind”. Our understanding should be that of true love is possessed by Spiritual being and true LOVE should benefit both of you. True LOVE is like a baby, it grows daily, no body understand it’s language and we both responsible to feeding and growing our LOVE “Baby”.

Sometimes we can’t refute the fact that we are HUMANS and our Differences are basically on Gender (Male and Female) but spiritually we are one. I suppose that is why some people do understand the fact that they are same-sex marriages. A married men/ women in a relationship can have a desire to have sex or love other women/men because they are human. Sometimes we find our desires in other living beings, still we do understand the fact that are in relationships but we turn to let our desires to control us.

Remember, it is supposed to be a mutual relationship

Nobody ever LOVES genuinely without any reasons which can be unforeseen. It takes LIFE LESSON and COURAGE to LOVE.

I assume that we have a very huge duty because LOVE is a secret.